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Hello hello everyone!
Happy new year first of all! I know it’s a tad late but as they say better late than never. I hope you all have a wonderful year filled with amazing experience of growth, love and goodness. ❤
Okay so on to the title of this blog post now.
On Wednesday, I learned about being a highly sensitive person by watching this video talking about the “six signs you are a highly sensitive person“. And in that video this particular part grabbed my attention the most.
“This is not something that you should be ashamed of and you should understand that having a highly sensitive soul means that you feel very deeply, have a big heart and appreciate the beauty in the world.”
That sentence basically describes me in a nutshell. I am a lover of beauty, of all things beautiful because they just fill my soul with so much happiness and I always thought that I had too big a heart which I often found to be extremely annoying growing up because it made me feel different that my compassion and empathy could feel so strongly more so than those around me.
I also do feel deeply but I just never knew that all these things put together actually ended up labelling a person as being “something” if that’s the right term to use. That feeling of realising that it wasn’t something weird or abnormal and only related to you but that it was something that existed and there were others like you. That’s what I mean and it was damn good to realise that!
But confession time, I didn’t just learn about Highly Sensitive People or HSPs that day. I actually came across the term and found out about it two years ago, in 2016. Before then I knew absolutely nothing!! So you can imagine how huge a discovery it was for me when I did back then. Very eye opening indeed. But back to the video, the 6 sighs are as follows;
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You are intuitive
Which means I’ve got this special ability that allows me to know about things in an inexplicable way and if I actually pay attention to it and follow it, it can help me out significantly. Thing is though, I’ve had trouble with this particular one for the longest time. This ‘gut feeling’ that suddenly and ever so quietly whispers or sometimes it’s a big loud unavoidable flash. Whichever way it presented itself I just didn’t know what to make of it and oftentimes simply never really listened only to later go ‘oh okay’. It took me a long time to get used to and it’s only now that I’m actually allowing myself to get better acquainted with this super power!
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You feel negativity “strongly”
Now this second one is what I need to elaborate on because it gave me a sudden OMG moment. “You also find yourself avoiding negativity in the media such as the news, violent movies or tv shows because you cannot tolerate the violence.” That, right there is so true! I stopped watching the news years ago because
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You are sensitive to environmental stimuli
With this particular one what I noticed that I can be extremely sensitive to the weather — I know if the temperature dropped in the winter and if it’s risen in the summer which makes me unable to tolerate extremes on both ends. Plus, funny story remember the story of the princess and the pea? Though I found that to be an exaggeration when I first encountered the story, I did remember it later when I found myself feeling great discomfort at minute particles such as crumbs in my bed sheets come bedtime.
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You are frequently fatigued
I don’t really relate to this one so don’t have anything to add here.
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People tell you…
That I’m too sensitive, yep. Heard that one many a time. But I’ve also been told that I’m easy to talk to and found people confide in me which is a nice thing really. That ‘you’re a great listener’ part I suppose applies as well.
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You are highly imaginative and have an active inner life
I’m a creative writer and have always been drawn to writing stories since a young age. It’s also been a really good coping mechanism whenever I’d fall into depression in the past. Though I do admit that I might also use it as a form escapism when I don’t want to deal with irl things except now that I’m much more mindful of it I don’t really succumb to that as much. As a lover of beauty, art has always been close to my heart though admittedly I haven’t been as creatively inclined as I would like drawing and painting wise the last couple of years. Hopefully this year that’ll change. And lastly, I’ve noticed cats are often drawn to me as I am to them and I do honestly prefer their company to that of humans most times.
At the end 5 out 6 isn’t too bad, eh? Anyhoo, this has been informative and fun to go through too. I do hope you have managed to find it so as well. Till the next time, much love! ❤